Day Eleven: That he would rejoice in decreasing
“The one who has the bride is the bridegroom. The friend of the bridegroom, who stands and hears him, rejoices greatly at the bridegroom’s voice. Therefore this joy of mine is now complete. He must increase, but I must decrease.” – John 3:29-30
Far from being envious of the growth of Jesus’ influence, John the Baptist tells his disciples he is like a man rejoicing at the happiness of his friend, the bridegroom. Rather than causing us sorrow or jealousy, our decrease and Christ’s increase should be a source of joy. Let us pray today that our husbands would rejoice at the increase of our Savior’s glory in their jobs, relationships, home-life, and every other endeavor.
Father, it is a constant temptation to strive for the increase of our own glory, but we see in your Word that true joy comes when we decrease and You increase. You know my husband’s dreams and goals, and You gave Him the talents and abilities He has. Please give Him an undivided heart, one that rejoices at each opportunity to make much of You and less of himself. May he have opportunities to use his gifts through Your power, for Your glory and his joy. Amen.
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Catherine Parks is a Christ-follower, wife to Erik, mom, member of @cbc_nashville, co-author of A Christ-Centered Wedding (bhpub 2014)
